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Spring Water

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I get thirsty, a lot.  And when I do, I drink tap water.  My super health conscious friend recently advised I start drinking spring water instead.  I did, and I noticed the difference straight away.  I felt lighter and more well immediately, and it seems to be getting even better with time.  My under eyes are not dark anymore.

I think it is due to the heavy metals in tap water.

Would you be willing to try switching?

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Or… Are We Blessed?

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Every creature has a lot to overcome.  I have an illness or two, etc.  Sometimes life can be a struggle.  For everyone.  But how we see our challenges radically changes our future.  Here’s how:  if we just mope around feeling sorry for ourselves, what scope is there for making a positive outcome happen?  I can’t see it.  The only way to make positive changes is to see each challenge as a chance to grow.

How do you see your situation?

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It’s The Small Things

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Life can be confusing.  Looking after ourselves, looking after others.  Deciding our paths.  Deciding what socks to wear.  Dealing with heartbreak and loss.  Having to curb our more expensive or sweet food habits.  Fitting in exercise.  Staying well.  Loving, forgiving.  And sometimes, saying no.  It’s a minefield.

It is a constant path, working all that out.  It really is.  Thankfully as you get older, though, or as you learn more about your illness(es), it becomes easier, and you know roughly what you’re doing.

When things have got difficult, though, you find you can take solace in the small things; fresh sheets, a cup of hot chocolate.  Have a look and see what lovely things are around you today.

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Curve Balls

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Life throws you curve balls.  It always does.  What I’m so grateful for is the clear direction I’ve laid out for myself.  I really believe in it – and I really believe in a goal-some life.

Every dream you strive to achieve will present complexities to surpass.  Just as life will throw up difficulties.  You grow as you work your way around them.

I’m so grateful to find my way around each difficulty, knowing where I’m going.

In the same way, knowing and really believing in my dreams really helps me get through difficulties.

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MS And Mental Health

UJ TeaWhen you are diagnosed with MS, there is no emotional support.  When you have had a relapse, there is nothing either.  You are told to ‘get on with it’ and similar phrases.

To which I say… ‘what?’

I was diagnosed at 23, which is young – I didn’t know who I was, where I wanted to be, or, at that point, what meaning I even attached to my life.

When I lost my legs, at 26, I went literally mental.  I ended up in mental hospital.

I now have yearly episodes of psychosis – and unsurprisingly the delusions always centre around my health.

I wasn’t able to cope with my illness and I wish I had had more support.  My health outcome would have been better.

Emotional support is necessary for people with MS.  Spread the word.

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Health Headlines

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“Shock story!”  “Disease risk!”  “…as rates reach record high!”

Illness is categorised and then sensationalised.  It is torn apart from it’s counter-part, health, and presented as an entrancing gruesome tit-bit for you to enjoy with your coffee.

It is telling that only one out of twelve headline articles on the CNN website is even in the vein of  ‘Slow down and live long with the ancient practice of qigong’.

Basically, the media makes health and illness into something completely alien from what it is – to sell papers – by making it exciting, whereas actually we all really just need to listen to ourselves and what we need to be well.

Trust yourself, listen to yourself.  Stay well.

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10 Ways To Make Yourself Happy

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Happiness is within reach.  Here is my list of mood boosting activities – it is a list I keep for when I need a pick-me-up.  Try making your own list and watch your life expand.

  1. Write a letter to an old friend.  In fact write lots of letters to lots of friends.  It will let people know they mean something to you, keep your connections strong and fill you with warmth to remember your special people.
  2. Spend some quality time in nature.  Flowers and leaves, an autumn breeze;  if you can’t remember the feeling, go and explore; see for yourself.
  3. Bake something tasty.  A wholesome quality only found in the kitchen.  Even if it’s through use of a bread maker, cook up a treat, and then share with your family, neighbours and friends.  Joy!
  4. Cuddle your pet.  Just look at them…  A cuddle would make you both happy and you know it.

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  5. Make a smoothie.  Health, vitality, fruit.  What’s not to love.
  6. Water your plants.  It’s a nurturing feeling.  Try it – and the plant will thank you by continuing to fill the air with freshness and oxygen.
  7. Do a little organising.  Making lists is oddly relaxing.  Your head has everything in order, you know?
  8. Do a little sprucing.  Tidying is far from a chore when you know you’re heading for a better mood.  Put some music on.  Get into it.
  9. Do a yoga pose.  You don’t have to spend money as free lessons are all over the internet.  Breathing and relaxing into a posture is a delicious way to energise and unwind.

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  10. Play your favourite music.  Dancing around the kitchen or laid back taking in the world; it makes no difference.  Music is the original source; it makes you happy.
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Walking Stars

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“You’re one of those people who remind me that the world is full of good people.”

A woman held the gate open for us today, and I was touched.

The thing is, our lives are full of good people, who make our lives that bit better; our partners, kids, brothers and sisters; the worker/s at our local shop; the repair people we see out and about.  Remember to smile the next time you see them, or even say thank you if it’s appropriate.

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Work And Spirituality

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One of the key tenets of Buddhism is that you do a job that is ethical.  The funny thing is, what drew me to Buddhism is that it just seems to make sense to me.  Moreover, I look back at my life, and I see it’s truth as it happened.  I was happy, and well; thriving, when I volunteered for the FoodBank.  I got very ill when I worked as a soulless marketer.  I think about all the skills I’ve learned and will learn doing blogging, and I know I could apply it to something soulless and lucrative… but I don’t want to.  Where would I get the motivation from?

Building this idea is exciting and motivating.  It means so much to see I’ve helped someone.  I don’t know if this is spirituality or ethics or just plain sense, but I do this because I love it and I love the people I help.

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There’s A Cat On My Knee / To Play Happily

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Sitting with friends,
Watching T.V.,
But the best thing by far,
Is the cat on my knee.

My mind starts to wander,
To fields out yonder;
A cottage and hills;
a broad, rooted tree.

Striding up mountains,
Crackling fires.
Living the dance:
Life a lived chance.

As she snuggles and purrs,
The way she prefers,
I know that my kitten,
Will be coming with me.